I am turned on by attention that can be subtle and confident at the same time. Light flirtation, a glance, a little mystery and the right distance - this is what really catches you. Anything that is too straightforward or intrusive, on the contrary, destroys the mood.
Turns Off
I love attention, light flirting and play, but I am instantly put off by rudeness and excessive persistence. The feeling of respect, tact and understanding of the moment is important to me. Anything that is too harsh, intrusive or without a sense of proportion kills interest.