Control - when I lead or when they confidently lead me. Toys - new sensations, textures, surprises. Changing rooms are slow, with pauses, each layer with anticipation. Sharp mind, calm confidence, long conversations with pauses. Sincere laughter. Freedom to be yourself.
Turns Off
Arrogance for no reason. People who talk but don't listen. Lack of taste - in words, clothes, actions. Haste and demands are here and now. Rudeness and attempts to violate boundaries. Passivity and boredom. Lack of a sense of humor. People who can't laugh at themselves.
