For them to look at me with unabashed desire while I dress seductively.
Direct, well-placed compliments about my body.
Long foreplay with teasing touches and kisses.
For them to whisper in my ear with a low voice and dirty talk in Spanish.
Turns Off
Men who are insecure or donโt dare to look at me with desire.
Lack of initiative and seduction (being too passive).
Vulgar or tasteless compliments.
Ignoring my efforts to look sensual and feminine.
