The art of balance: the warmth of shy kisses and the sudden, bold confidence in the movement of the hands. When you feel strength in affection, and care in rudeness.
Turns Off
Lack of basic communication culture: rudeness, personalization and name-calling. And also the habit of devaluing other people’s time and skills with requests to “do something for free/in a friendly manner.” Respect and personal boundaries are the basic minimum.