I'm turned on by flirting that gets down to business, a sense of humor, and intelligence! I like calm in a man. When a man knows what a woman wants so he can get what he wants. And women love gifts.
Turns Off
I can't stand rushing and demanding behavior! When people use offensive, derogatory terms when meeting new people. When strangers invite me to a private meeting. I can't stand cuckolds, dominants, or submissives. I don't dominate, I don't submit, and I'm not into BDSM.