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Some people need to be able to focus on the oral theyre receiving without having other tasks as hand, while those who thrive off of giving others pleasure may find it adds to their arousal.
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You're Afraid To Talk About What You Want:
It can feel weird to talk about what you do/don't like in bed, but the more you do it the easier it will become, and it can even lead to a more fulfilling sex life.